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Book Review – Remember the Moon by Abigail Carter

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The Lovely Bones meets Ghost, Remember The Moon is a poignant story of an everlasting love that reaches far beyond the grave. Jay is a successful businessman, husband, and father. His sudden death leaves his wife, Maya, hollow and angry, and their seven-year-old son, Calder, spins destructively out of control. With help from a spirited afterlife therapist, Jay revisits his past, discovering hard truths about himself and the world he left behind. He attempts to comfort Maya and Calder in their grief while discovering his true “spirit” self. Then, when Maya hires a psychic to communicate with him, Jay learns her darkest secret and in his shock, inadvertently sends her on a path of ill-fated romance. Confronted with the decision to either follow his mortal instincts or help his wife find love, Jay must learn to transcend everything he ever was.

The blurb had me intrigued from the first sentence so I one-clicked and sat down to read, I finished it in an evening. I literally could not put it down. This book was a beautiful read, a journey through the story of grief and loss in both human and spirit. I loved how the author managed to weave the two stories together so beautifully, how human became intermixed with spirit and vice-versa.

I guess I’m like a lot of people, curious about any potential ‘afterlife’. It’s natural as a human to wonder if there’s anything for us after death, or before birth, natural to hope that our loved ones have gone somewhere and natural to hope that they could be watching over us, so close but unseen. The premise of this book exploring an idea of what could possibly be out there definitely appealed to my sense of curiosity. The ideas this author used to create this ‘afterworld’ were beautiful and sometimes unexpected, but always made sense for the story and characters. I have to say, if there is indeed something out there for us after death I wouldn’t mind at all if what was in this book was our reality.

Watching myself die, I felt no pain, no emotion, no fear.

As for the human aspect of the story, it was beautiful and heart wrenching at the same time. Calder (the son) had my heart breaking again and again. Following both Maya and Calder through all of the hurt, pain, loneliness and anger. All of the attempts at moving forward, of adapting to the new reality of mother and son only, of learning to live with the fact that life is changed and to some extent will always be different, the fact that you can never go back to how it used to be. It was written as it should be, all encompassing. Like a giant blanket of fog had been pulled over this family and they were trying to work their way through it. I can’t ever imagine what the reality of losing your husband/parent would be like, but I am sure that this story does a very good job at creating the reality of such a horrible loss.

Death taught me that luck or unluck is merely an illusion of the human mind, a story we tell ourselves so we can blame our failures on bad luck rather than face our messy, true selves.

This isn’t my go-to genre but this is up there with some of my favorites from when I do read it from time to time. It was so heartfelt and poignant and it completely captured me. It’s definitely a must-read, a very worthwhile story that was very deserving of being told.

Remember the Moon: A Novel

By Abigail Carter

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Book Review – Love Letters to the Dead By Ava Dellaira

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As an adult, I’ve never read anything even slightly related to the YA genre. Generally it’s not really my thing. But when I was browsing new releases this book caught my eye…and I thought now was as good as a time as any to give it a whirl.

It begins as an assignment for English class: Write a letter to a dead person. Laurel chooses Kurt Cobain because her sister, May, loved him. And he died young, just like May did. Soon, Laurel has a notebook full of letters to people like Janis Joplin, Amy Winehouse, Amelia Earhart, Heath Ledger, and more; though she never gives a single one of them to her teacher. She writes about starting high school, navigating new friendships, falling in love for the first time, learning to live with her splintering family. And, finally, about the abuse she suffered while May was supposed to be looking out for her. Only then, once Laurel has written down the truth about what happened to herself, can she truly begin to accept what happened to May. And only when Laurel has begun to see her sister as the person she was; lovely and amazing and deeply flawed; can she begin to discover her own path.

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The whole book is broken up into Laurel’s letters to the dead rather than chapters. It’s an interesting way to narrate a story. Within these letters we get telling of events and also insight into Laurels feelings and thoughts. It’s a fine line to tread with this style, between making sure the writing doesn’t stray too far from being a letter and also being able to tell the story and keep up the pace. Mostly I feel the author does a really good job of balancing the two. I did especially enjoy how often Laurel would relate what was going on in her world to what happened to the respective celebrity she was writing about at the time. Especially poignant were some of the letters to Kurt Cobain where she discusses him leaving his daughter and his reasons and how she feels as a daughter who’s been left.

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There are plenty of topics covered here that today’s teenagers/tweens could identify with. Apart from the focus on grief, there is everything from wagging and trying to fit in, to underage drinking and a (quite uncomfortable) sexual undercurrent in parts. The author really does seem to ‘get’ teenage angst. And this book is most certainly angsty, obviously because of the story for a start it needs to be angsty, but there is also a certain type of angst that comes alone with being a teen and you definitely get a decent dose of this here. Laurel spends pretty much the whole book breaking my heart. No thirteen year old deserves even a fraction of what life has thrown at her. So many times she makes me want to throw my overprotective mother coat over her and just hug her forever. I am a mother of two very young boys and while reading Laurel talking about how she would do anything to have a relationship with her older sister I am mindful of the sibling dynamic that maybe as adult we forget about all too quickly. How a younger sibling can idolize the older one. How the dynamic of siblings can change when one hits adolescence, how the younger one would do anything to get to spend time with them like they did when they were kids, but ultimately how they’re too young to really see the teenage life for what it is.

I’m most certainly not a teenager, I can only recall what life was like as a teen and imagine how it would be these days for these kids. I imagine though that this book does quite a good job of covering topics that are applicable to this age group, as well as having the plotline that would keep them reading. As my first YA read I don’t think I could’ve picked a better book. It really had me thinking (and still does) and I’m not even the target audience! I was surprised and impressed that people like Kurt Cobain and bands like Guns n Roses still get mentioned in today’s teenage culture? Is this actually a thing? I hope so, because in my opinion they are timeless and in some ways it makes this story more relatable to oldies like me!

I don’t know if I’ll read another YA for a while. Not because I didn’t enjoy the book, because I really did, but because that was quite a lot of teenage drama to digest for a non-teenager. It made me a bit sad when I realized that through the book I was thinking more like a parent than a teen! So it really illustrated that I have most certainly moved past this demographic, no matter (Much to my horror) how immature I feel! If you like the YA genre then definitely give this a whirl, it’s a really well thought out and well executed read. Tough, but good.

Love Letters to the Dead

By Ava Dellaira